She believed she could so she did

I am so excited that we will be reviewing our contracts this weekend so hopefully by next week we can all sign them which will move us into the next step.

I think one of the top 3 questions I get asked is how will I explain this to our children and I usually respond that I will keep it honest and simple once we past the first trimester. I also plan on getting them this book so we have something floating around the house as they have interest to talk about it or ask questions. 

The Kangaroo Pouch introduces young children, ages 2-to-8, to the concept of surrogacy. The story is narrated by a young kangaroo named Oliver whose mother has decided to help another family have a baby. The Kangaroo Pouchgently guides the reader on the surrogacy journey and answers questions they may have such as, why would someone choose to be a surrogate? What will family life be like during the pregnancy?  And most importantly, what happens when the surro-baby is born and given back to their biological parents?

The Kangaroo Pouch is designed to act not only as a conversation starter, but also as a "how-to" manual for children to refer to throughout the surrogacy journey. The book has been reviewed by child specialists to ensure that it conveys age-appropriate messages.

The reason I entered into this journey is because we as a family are complete and our life is settled enough to now help someone else start a family of their own. Just the thought that I can help someone else have this priceless gift of parenthood makes my heart warm over with happiness. 

Bonding Before Contracts

Sorry I haven't had anything to update but the truth is this last month was just full of waiting; the good news is I should have my contracts to sign later week which means I am that much closer to starting medications (injectables) and getting a date for our much anticipated embryo transfer.

This past Saturday I was able to meet with E, the IM (Intended Mother) for a really nice lunch. We had been trying to get together for a month now but with such different schedules we found it impossible to get together with our spouses so we carved out some one-on-one time for a lunch date to get to know each other better.

My ultimate goal for us is to become as comfortable as I am with any of my good friends. I am sure over the course of our journey we will develop a very special bond together but the sooner we can become comfortable with each other the closer we can be throughout this very special process.

I really enjoyed getting to know E better, she is so thoughtful and sweet. I feel very fortunate to have been matched with such wonderful local IP's (Intended Parent's) and I am so excited that we as a team are going to do something really amazing together.  

With this surrogate journey in the making I thought this was the perfect time for me to start on this inspiring journal project by Lil Blue Boo. I always love a creative outlet and a good challenge so this seems like the perfect project for me, will you join me?